Memorial Day Weekend 2003

At four in the morning, she got a phone call from her sister-in-law, “Your husband is in the Neuro-Intensive Care Unit here.  You better come right away.”  She hurriedly gathered her 2 year old son and drove for two hours in a daze.  At the hospital, her husband was on oxygen, had tubes coming in and out of his body and was semi-conscious.  Family members were called and coming from all over the country.  Bewildered and confused she kept asking herself, how had all this happened and why?

Percent of adults who binge drink per state

Recently the Centers for Disease Control published a study  about binge drinking in the United States. According to the report, there are more than 38 million US adults that binge drink.  This over-consumption of alcohol occurs about 4 times a month with as many as 8 drinks per binge.

Binge drinking is defined differently for men and women.   For men the number is 5 or more alcoholic drinks or women 4 or more drinks within a short period of time is binge-ing.

The average largest number of drinks consumed by binge drinkers on an occasion

Although the 18-34 year old age group contains the most binge drinkers, adults 65 and up binge drink the most often.   Another interesting fact is that the income group with the most binge drinkers makes more than $75,000.  Yet those earning less than $25,000 drink the most during binges and binge drink the most often.  Finally, most of the people who drink and drive are binge drinkers.

A traumatic event is obviously something out of the ordinary.  According to experts, we all have “templates” created by our minds.  They are our “expectations,” what we assume will happen based on repeated past experience, basically the established routine. You don’t  have a “template” for a traumatic event. It is completely random, outside anything familiar.  That means it requires a lot of cognitive energy to interpret.

At 4 in the morning, my friend’s normal routine is to be in bed, fast asleep.

Her husband survived the automobile accident with the 19 year old girl who’s blood alcohol level was .19%.  That 19 year old ran a red light and T-boned the other driver’s car.  She’d been binge drinking and  she walked away from the accident unscathed.  He still lives with PTSD and physical results of the accident.